
OK, so I am needing some input.
Ray and I have almost always agreed on everything when it comes to raising our kids. Most everything has never even warranted a discussion - we are just always on the same page; What he says goes and vice versa.
However, there is one little thing right now that we aren't agreeing on, and it is driving me crazy! Pook is at the age where he is getting into everything. Pushing buttons is one of his favorite activities. Our TV and DVD player are at the perfect height for him to stand there and continually push buttons. TV off, TV on, volume up, volume down, DVD tray out, channel up, then down. And at 14 months, Pook really is just learning what "NO" means, and usually he just smiles when you say it, and then does it again. And Baby R is the same age, so during the day I have 2 little ones playing with the buttons all day.
I wanted to get one of those TV button blockers - a plastic strip that stops all the button pushing, but the remotes are still able to work through it. They are inexpensive and easy, and would save me a lot of grief right now. However, Ray does not want one. He says that the babies just need to learn not to touch the buttons, and it will take a bit of work, but they will learn. He thinks that excessive baby-proofing is for lazy people who don't want to really watch their kids. And I agree with him to a point - our house is baby proofed so that it is safe, with most "NO" things (breakable or dangerous items) out of reach or put away. However, those TV buttons are neither breakable or dangerous, and pretty tempting to two 14 month-olds..
We didn't have this issue with Emmy. When she was this age, we were staying with my parents during our move from Michigan, and most of their tempting buttons are behind doors in the TV cabinet or out of reach. So, now I am not sure what is the best path to take.
So, what do you think? I agree with setting boundaries and having the kids learn what "no" means, but I am so tired of saying "no" every 5 seconds when it comes to the TV. Should we save ourselves the grief and get a TV button blocker, or keep working on teaching them not to push the buttons?